sequ asked: what the fuck is “demisexual”
some bullshit sexual “orientation” bored teens came up to make themselves feel special
I believe it means “only being sexually attracted to people after forming an emotional connection with them”
or in other words
“I’M NOT ONE OF THOSE SLUTTY SLUTTY MCSLUTS WHO WANTS TO FUCK TOTAL STRANGERS, I’M SPECIAL, LOOK AT ME, I’M FUCKING SPECIAL!”
it is the most asinine, shallow, ridiculous thing to come out of internet identity politics and demonstrates a serious lack of understanding of how sexuality and relationships actually work in the real world, especially for women
tl;dr—it’s special snowflake syndrome personified
i was just thinking of ~demisexuality~ the other day
and how people can really be physically attracted only when they are romantically attracted…….. LOL NO
As someone said this weekend, if there can be 5,000 cereal brands, why not sexual identity? And c’mon, “feministhistorian,” you can’t understand feminism (or at least well enough to call yourself a historian, should have a holistic understanding) without contemplating that gender is a spectrum. So is sexuality. Respect demisexuals.
(Source: saturniinae)